tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-22670778473323641442024-02-07T00:29:33.743-08:00Janette Miller 's Strange LifeJanette Miller's Strange Lifehttp://www.blogger.com/profile/13140107668977991878noreply@blogger.comBlogger42125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2267077847332364144.post-14198392980287495252021-07-25T12:31:00.000-07:002021-07-25T12:31:04.010-07:00Thamesway, 660 Bath Road Taplow, 1943 the Garden of my Dreams<p style="font-size: 14px; font-stretch: normal; line-height: normal; margin: 0px;"><b></b></p><div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: center;"><b><iframe allowfullscreen="" class="BLOG_video_class" height="266" src="https://www.youtube.com/embed/kUY82G8firk" width="320" youtube-src-id="kUY82G8firk"></iframe></b></div><b><br /><span style="font-family: arial;"><br /></span></b><p></p><p style="font-size: 14px; font-stretch: normal; line-height: normal; margin: 0px;"><b><span style="font-family: arial;"><br /></span></b></p><p style="font-size: 14px; font-stretch: normal; line-height: normal; margin: 0px;"><b><span style="font-family: arial;">Thamesway, 660 Bath Road Taplow, UK</span></b></p>
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<p style="font-size: 14px; font-stretch: normal; line-height: normal; margin: 0px;"><span style="font-family: arial;">When I imagine heaven, I always think of a special corner of the very first garden I ever knew. I can see it in my mind’s eye. It is the corner of the garden where the gravel path of orchard meets the tennis court with a rustic rose-covered arch and a greengage tree, the only tree that I could climb.</span></p>
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<p style="font-size: 14px; font-stretch: normal; line-height: normal; margin: 0px;"><span style="font-family: arial;">Sadly, like most of the buildings of my youth, this garden is long gone, now the heavenly garden is covered by concrete and six rather unattractive houses but for me these do not exist. All I see is the beautiful garden that my grandfather so lovingly tended. It is as fresh in my memory as my garden today and it is worth remembering as a reminder that progress is not always better than what has been replaced.</span></p>
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<p style="font-size: 14px; font-stretch: normal; line-height: normal; margin: 0px;"><span style="font-family: arial;">So now let me the tell you all about this enchanted magical place where I spent the first four years of my life with my mother, her two unmarried sisters, my grandparents, a parrot, a dog and a tortoise and occasionally my two cousins, John and Gillian and their parents. It was known then as Thamesway, Bath Road Taplow and was in a row of rather grand houses that line the Bath Road. Nearby was a cafe, Western Biscuit Factory, a pub, The Mile House, the local telephone exchange and Barr’s Tulip Fields. The rest was farmland. This was my world.</span></p>
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<p style="font-size: 14px; font-stretch: normal; line-height: normal; margin: 0px;"><span style="font-family: arial;">Please note NO father. I did not have a father! I did have one but because of an event known as the Second World War this more or less essential item did not feature in the first four years of my life and when the highly desired object did turn up it was a disaster for all of us. This need not concern us here.</span></p>
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<p style="font-size: 14px; font-stretch: normal; line-height: normal; margin: 0px;"><span style="font-family: arial;">Thamesway was the prized possession of my truly remarkable grandfather,<a href="https://janetteheffernan.blogspot.com/2011/02/indian-room-wembley-exhibition-1924.html" target="_blank"> Henry Thorpe</a>, the chief accountant and manager of Wembley Stadium. He had managed Wembley Stadium since The 1923 Wembley International Exhibition and he and Sir Arthur Elvin the Managing Director had introduced the world to Speedway, the FA Cup, the dogs and eventually The 1948 Olympic Games. At this time 1943 Pop was still managing Wembley Stadium, travelling by train every weekday via Taplow Station and Paddington, then the tube to Wembley in the morning and back at night in the blackout.</span></p>
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<p style="font-size: 14px; font-stretch: normal; line-height: normal; margin: 0px;"><span style="font-family: arial;">The most remarkable thing about Henry Thorpe is that far from being educated at Eton and Oxford he was born in the slums of Manchester, Gorton to be precise, one of ten children of a Wagoner, a man who made coal carriages for the railways. To say Pop was poor was an understatement. One can still see pictures of their house by the railway lines a small two up two down Victorian terrace house by the railway into which were crammed 14 souls every night. Not a garden in sight. In fact, for many years I doubt if Pop had ever seen a garden.</span></p>
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<p style="font-size: 14px; font-stretch: normal; line-height: normal; margin: 0px;"><span style="font-family: arial;">By incredible hard work and industry my grandfather had educated himself through night school from a railway ticket office clerk, to be the first graduate of the London School of Economics, pass in the first 100 of the Civil service Exams to become eventually Governor of the Ceylon Railways and on retirement Manager of Wembley Stadium.</span></p>
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<p style="font-size: 14px; font-stretch: normal; line-height: normal; margin: 0px;"><span style="font-family: arial;">Pop bought Thamesway for his wife and four daughters, Flo, Jo, Tippy & Honey, my mother, in about 1930 when they moved from Dachet as his wife Ma was fed up with the flooding from the Thames that happened each year. The house was not remarkable being rather small for such a large family who just squeezed in but the garden even for 1930 was something else for it was a double and a half building plot which allowed for a round drive in and a huge garden. It was also large enough to allow Pop to buy the Indian Exhibit, the Indian Room at the Wembley Exhibition and have it moved and built onto the side of his house. This room has got a a blog entry of its own. The Indian Room. This alone made <i>Thamesway </i>magical.</span></p>
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<p style="font-size: 14px; font-stretch: normal; line-height: normal; margin: 0px;"><span style="font-family: arial;">To make matters even better the garden had been designed. The world is used to designer gardens today but in 1930 this was unusual to say the least although I did not realise it then design is everything.</span></p>
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<p style="font-size: 14px; font-stretch: normal; line-height: normal; margin: 0px;"><span style="font-family: arial;">Here is a ground plan of the garden and the house which as can be seen covers a very small area except for the attached Indian Room which was about 12 meters square. You can see the entrance, the Orchard, the long herbaceous and rose border, kitchen gardens, (not used as such) and tennis court . </span></p>
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<p style="font-size: 14px; font-stretch: normal; line-height: normal; margin: 0px;"><span style="font-family: arial;">You entered by car through the double gates from the Bath Road on a yellow gravel path. There was quite a ditch in those day. This road was very busy from 1944 on as all the tanks going to D Dad passed by on the ay out and those that were left back on the way in in 1945. These scared me stiff. The car could sweep around the central flower bed to the porch and front door. This flower bed was always a mass of flowers. Tulips in Spring and Asters in summer, like a park. The car which was a Ford V8, DMK 945 was driven by my Auntie Flo, the eldest sister and it was her job to fetch and carry Pop from the station when it rained otherwise Pop walked the short distance to Taplow Station.</span></p>
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<p style="font-size: 14px; font-stretch: normal; line-height: normal; margin: 0px;"><span style="font-family: arial;">Once delivered the car could sweep around the central circle and drive on the gravel road around to the back of the house to the large garage by the back door. All boundaries were lined with large trees, the front and garage side fir trees, the other side had deciduous trees like a great weeping willow and all the boundaries had hedges of common laurel that had to be carefully cut by hand every year. This was down by a jobbing gardener twice a year. Huge job.</span></p>
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<p style="font-size: 14px; font-stretch: normal; line-height: normal; margin: 0px;"><span style="font-family: arial;">Next to the Indian Room there was a bed devoted entirely to old fashioned roses. This was backed by a rustic trellis covered with climbing roses. In early summer the smell from these flowers was overwhelming. A rustic arch led through to the orchard and the herbaceous border. </span></p>
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<p style="font-size: 14px; font-stretch: normal; line-height: normal; margin: 0px;"><span style="font-family: arial;">The orchard which had 45 mature fruiting trees was the main garden and used all summer for picnics on the finely mowed lawn. This lawn was like the finest Aubuson carpet and would put Wimbledon tennis court to shame. Not a weed in sight, beautiful swathe and carefully cut with straight lines like the Wembley Cup Final. Every adult except Ma had to mow the lawn. Pop did it with a motor mower but the daughters had to mow it by hand on occasions. It was always perfect.</span></p>
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<p style="font-size: 14px; font-stretch: normal; line-height: normal; margin: 0px;"><span style="font-family: arial;">There were three cherry trees, one was the variety white heart and these were a treat every summer. The then was a range of plums, Doris, greengage, damson, lots of damson jam and Victoria plums for eating and a great selection of eating apples of which my favourite was Coxes Orange Pippins. On summer afternoons all during the Second Work WarWar </span></p>
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<p style="font-size: 14px; font-stretch: normal; line-height: normal; margin: 0px;"><span style="font-family: arial;">When she was not working at the home office Auntie Jo made and prepared afternoon tea in the orchard. This was a massive production as if the lawn was not cut she had to do this first by hand with the hand mower. Then she would put all all the deck chairs, There would always be six at home but usually many more. Hammock and cushions with a blanket “sur l”herb pour mois!” This also included small tables for Granny and Pop, who was only around at the weekend. She would take the Polly the parrot out in his cage for an airing ns bring the wind up gramophone and 78s with the latest record for background music.</span></p>
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<p style="font-size: 14px; font-stretch: normal; line-height: normal; margin: 0px;"><span style="font-family: arial;">Then she would make the tea. During the Second World War there was really nothing of interest to eat so the main item was Bread and jam with no butter followed if one was lucky by some sort of cake. However the bread was thinly cut, at that time sliced bread had not been invented. Auntie Jo’s thinly sliced bread was delicious. There was plenty of tea but no sugar. The best Royal Albert tea cups and service were used along with napkins and appropriate cutlery and this alone made these out door meals special. At 3.0 pm the gong would sound and everyone would drop what they were doing descend for tea under the apple trees. It was an unforgettable occasion. This would last 20 minutes at most with Granny serving each cup. Tea in first!</span></p>
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<p style="font-size: 14px; font-stretch: normal; line-height: normal; margin: 0px;"><span style="font-family: arial;">Then as soon as it had started and we had all eaten as much bread and jam as we could manage it was over and Auntie Jo was left to put the whole production paraphernalia away and wash up too. No dishwasher in those days while Granny did what she did best and cooked the dinner.</span></p>
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<p style="font-size: 14px; font-stretch: normal; line-height: normal; margin: 0px;"><span style="font-family: arial;">On Saturday mornings in summer there was a tennis party for the entire neighbourhood as Thamesway was the only house with a tennis court. Occasionally there were serious local competitions but these were always won by the proprietor of the local transport cafe, The Vincents who were top class players. Mrs Vincent made Wimbledon one year but was prevented from going as she was pregnant with her first daughter Pamela who was to become my best friend and sort of sister. Being an only child I was lucky to have a sort of sister for the rest of my life. The tennis court had an 8 ft run back and a bank for spectators and was where James the Tortoise lived in a special garden frame. This bank was about a meter high and James was forever falling off and escaping. James hunts were held at least once a week.</span></p>
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<p style="font-size: 14px; font-stretch: normal; line-height: normal; margin: 0px;"><span style="font-family: arial;">The garden was my grandfather’s passion. He adored it and worked in it in his free time. In Spring we had a show of tulips to match any that Holland could muster as Barr’s Tulip farm was just 100 yards away. All the beds were massed with tulips and for get me knots. Mr Barr was a regular visitor and great friend and was the only person my grandfather took to the FA Cup. No females allowed to their game of football as it would be a waste t waste a ticket on a girl. John my male cousin got to go. I found out many years later that Mr Barr was the fourth richest man in England. Maybe that had something to do with why Mr Barr got the tickets!</span></p>
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<p style="font-size: 14px; font-stretch: normal; line-height: normal; margin: 0px;"><span style="font-family: arial;">Pop grew all the flowers himself. Pop was not interested in vegetables, he could have ploughed up the tennis court to help the war effort but refused to do so. He grew the forget knots and pansies for the spring and asters, thousands of them for the summer. The beds were crammed with flowers. And I still love these plantings. I especially loved the pampers grass and the grey lamb’s ear/Stachys the bordered all the edges of the beds. Pop also loved roses. The fruit was useful and after the autumn harvest, the apples were stored in the attic in rows and lasted all through the winter. This fruit was useful for all sorts of pies.</span></p>
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<p style="font-size: 14px; font-stretch: normal; line-height: normal; margin: 0px;"><span style="font-family: arial;">Pop had a small dark garden shed where he stored his poisons and worked on wet days. To discourage me from entering he told me terrifying tales of the huge child-eating spiders that lived there and how I would become entrapped in their webs. I have not recovered yet!</span></p>
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<p style="font-size: 14px; font-stretch: normal; line-height: normal; margin: 0px;"><span style="font-family: arial;">Thamesway made me appreciate a beautifully designed and well cared for garden. I had to leave this heaven in 1947 for the patch of Middlesex clay of the semi-detached in Stanmore where I lived for the next 18 years. Actually, it was quite well designed too but my father ruined by removing the flower beds and turning it into a muddy weed filled lawn but that is another story. I longed to return to Thamsway.</span></p>
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<p style="font-size: 14px; font-stretch: normal; line-height: normal; margin: 0px;"><span style="font-family: arial;">Now this beautiful garden is no more but to me, it still lives in my memory and now thanks to the miracle of the Cloud it can once more live on.</span></p><p><span style="font-family: arial;"> </span></p>Janette Miller's Strange Lifehttp://www.blogger.com/profile/13140107668977991878noreply@blogger.com1tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2267077847332364144.post-79826237876748845382021-07-25T12:25:00.002-07:002021-07-25T12:49:11.271-07:00Why I find I relate to the Romantic novels by Danielle Steel <p></p><div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: center;"><a href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEjz-aizwUCuQO4YllDm0kq4IdbJEDQjiNrCXkc2ru25jCA9MgITJ77pike2WXJ5jloJbt4XZvv097T2HX2x36wNF6rSdzWFSA52-XQXmlGo2Lr3w7ko5YDWO2lEL7BO1BakGmn4dQdMKdk/s742/Screen+Shot+2021-07-26+at+6.17.40+AM.png" style="margin-left: 1em; margin-right: 1em;"><img border="0" data-original-height="742" data-original-width="502" height="320" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEjz-aizwUCuQO4YllDm0kq4IdbJEDQjiNrCXkc2ru25jCA9MgITJ77pike2WXJ5jloJbt4XZvv097T2HX2x36wNF6rSdzWFSA52-XQXmlGo2Lr3w7ko5YDWO2lEL7BO1BakGmn4dQdMKdk/s320/Screen+Shot+2021-07-26+at+6.17.40+AM.png" /></a></div><br /> <p></p><p>I only discovered the novels of Danielle Steel comparatively recently. I had seen few of her novels transferred to Hollywood and I was not impressed. Far too formulaic and vulgar for me so I dismissed her as like I did Dorothy L Sayers many years ago, but because of the Covid Pandemic and hours of isolation I became addicted to audio books and I happened upon one entitled<i> The Mistress</i>. I had no idea who had written it but it took me into a world <i>that I knew not of to </i>quote the Bard.</p><p><i><a href="https://daniellesteel.com/blog/the-mistress/" target="_blank">The Mistress </a></i>tells the story of one of those exotic creatures that become the toys of rich and powerful men who cruise the Mediterranean in luxurious liners. Money being no object. It tells in detail what happened to this Mistress of three years when she was summarily and unexpectedly dumped one night by her lover and how she survived without him. The writing had that feeling of verisimilitude that only someone who had known how these rare creatures live could bring so vividly to life. I was impressed.</p><p>I listened over the months to many of Ms Steel books and each one surprised me. Steel is is no formulaic writer. Unlike Agatha Christie who gives variations on a theme each of Steele's novels is highly original and well researched. Zoya a novel based on a<a href="https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Danielle_Steel" target="_blank"> Russian Countess </a>and the<a href="https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Sergei_Diaghilev" target="_blank"> Diaghilev Ballet</a> was astonishingly accurate. The novels are not about ordinary people but strange elusive heroines who like the rest of us have to find a way through life and have wonderful ups and horrific downs. The ending is not always happy. </p><p>It took a few books for me to take the simple step of looking <a href="https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Danielle_Steel" target="_blank">Danielle Steel </a>up in Wikipedia. I found this author is a exotic as her heroines and she could well be a character in one of her romances. No half measures for her. She has written over 179 books selling 800 million to a resounding lack of critical acclaim. She has 9 children and 5 husbands, one of which she met while he was in jail. She is fabulously wealthy and so can describe that life style that seems out of reach to many of us. Her heroines run the gamut from rags to riches and back. She knows how the world she describes <i>ticks</i>. Few of us do.</p><p>At first I was a bit annoyed at the heroines as I felt that the situations they faced and they way they lurched from fame and fortune to the daily grind of abject poverty unreal but I enjoyed every one. Steel is very good with dialogue and is not afraid to face the realties of life head on. The last book I have listened to was called<a href="https://daniellesteel.com/blog/remembrance/" target="_blank"> Remembrance</a> and had the most dramatic description of birth and a murder I have ever come across. Both were alarmingly real and rang very true. </p><p>The question is why do I relate to these unusual creatures? Why do I empathise with them? No one could possibly live like that going from a princess to a refugee and back to a place in the highest society could they? Then it hit me, yes they do. This type of woman is around only unrecognised but Steel being one herself, having known riches to rags and back can write about their lives. Writers write about what they know. Steel can describe this life style in detail for those who would like to understand it but will never experience it for themselves.</p><p>Today it struck me that my own life would make a magnificent Steel novel. My strange life, and believe me it has been strange, is the stuff that Steel novels are made of. I could be a Steel heroine. I think my life is perfectly ordinary like those around me but it isn't. No wonder I have problems fitting in.</p><p>The novel begins with the birth of a daughter in Windsor UK in the middle of the Second World War to a young war bride. The city and surrounds of the Slough trading estate are being heavily bombed. Because her father is away fighting the Germans in North Africa our heroine called Honey lives with her grandparents in Taplow. Honey's father born into the slums of Manchester where his father made coal wagons rose from a ticket clerk at the age of 13 to becoming the <a href="https://janetteheffernan.blogspot.com/2011/01/wembley-stadium-and-kings-speechhenry.html">Manager of Wembley Stadium</a>, along the way becoming one of the first working class graduates of the London School of Economics and passing out in the top grade in the British Civil Service Exams. </p><p>After a 22 year stint in Ceylon Pop returned in to run the British Empire Exhibition 1923 -24 for which the Empire Stadium was built. In 1925 Pop tried to buy the empty unwanted Stadium but missed out to a young Jewish entrepreneur who beat hm to i.t Instead of raising the money through the City the young man just went around the working class areas of Wembley knocking on doors and selling shares at £2 each until he raised the £10,000 required to buy the stadium. However the young entrepreneur was wise and asked Pop to join him in running the Stadium. For 2 years they ran it as a scrap metal yard with the pitch piled high with scrap metal but in the next years they gave the world, the FA Cup, Speedway, the Dogs and in 1948 The Olympic Games.</p><p>Pop had four beautiful daughters, Honey's mother being the youngest and Honey was brought up in the most beautiful house,</p><div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: center;"><iframe allowfullscreen="" class="BLOG_video_class" height="266" src="https://www.youtube.com/embed/kUY82G8firk" width="320" youtube-src-id="kUY82G8firk"></iframe></div><br />Thamesway which was packed with glorious works of art of the finest quality. One was an exotic <a href="https://janetteheffernan.blogspot.com/2011/02/indian-room-wembley-exhibition-1924.html" target="_blank">Indian Room</a> which Pop bought from at the end of the Empire Exhibition and had built on to his house.The house had a large designed garden with roses, orchards and tennis court which Pop tended at weekends. Other than the war, the bombs and the tanks outside the gates preparing for D Day one would never guess there was a war on. Honey had three mothers, the three sisters, a grandmother and Pop who stood in for her absent father.<p></p><p> What happens to this privileged child? Her father returns when she was four, not the man that married her mother but a completely different man who had spent his life burying the dead of the war including the German's dead horses which Honey's father thought was the worst. Her father was demobbed but could get no work. </p><p>Honey was wrested from the comforts and luxury of her grandfather's home and taken to live in an unfurnished semi detached in Stanmore. A house with no furniture, coupons were needed for the very basic items, you could have a dining table but no chairs or a bed but no curtains. There was little food, little money and 1947 was the hardest winter in centuries. There was no coal only bags of wet slake if you could get it. Honey once doted upon by a loving family was left totally alone as was her mother. Her working class neighbour a Mrs Rutter made it clear that her two sons would not be allowed to play with Honey and she and Honey would never be friends. For the next 9 years Mrs Rutter kept her word. Mrs Rutter died of cancer in the next door house separated by a wall. Honey only once se t foot in the house to gt a ball that had landed on the wrong side of the fence!</p><p>As you can see already Honey fits very well into the Steel class of heroines. So what happens to our heroine, she gets abused by a<a href="https://janetteheffernan.blogspot.com/2015/04/the-nun-dwarf-red-cap-and-adam-eve-part.html" target="_blank"> young nun</a> at her Convent School for 5 years but at the age of 12 is rescued by her father who censing her lack of education sends her to a London ballet school where she becomes the pet of the ballet at Covent Garden. Her debut is at a Gala Performance in front of The Queen Mother and Princess Margaret. </p><div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: center;"><a href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEjuFs-Ib89tlvrsdRISlx6SlBxHEDKgksGuuMvXeiQuOlkc5U2mi5GZOF_keU00ZNWdoojTmC0lfFyxCftZMuKX-4zP4BrK957s5cm4GSJISR8B5k-X5ccqVNe5ZyVeCojSASwU_4HJ6-k/s824/First+Job+H%2526P+Patsy.png" style="clear: left; float: left; margin-bottom: 1em; margin-right: 1em;"><img border="0" data-original-height="540" data-original-width="824" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEjuFs-Ib89tlvrsdRISlx6SlBxHEDKgksGuuMvXeiQuOlkc5U2mi5GZOF_keU00ZNWdoojTmC0lfFyxCftZMuKX-4zP4BrK957s5cm4GSJISR8B5k-X5ccqVNe5ZyVeCojSASwU_4HJ6-k/s320/First+Job+H%2526P+Patsy.png" width="320" /></a></div><br />Because of her attractive speaking voice Honey quickly becomes the voice of Mandy for one of the biggest biscuit firms in UK who exploit her paying just £10 for 5 years of use of her voice on radio and TV. <p></p><p>Next she meets a famous supposedly very gay composer who needs her for an opera he has written and who falls under her spell. She meets and gets to know members of the Royal Family.this relationship carries on over the course of 5 years with unfortunate consequences for both of them. Honey wants to direct in the theatre on on TV but although winning the most prestigious prize in UK for this discipline the is rejected by BBC for being a woman. Two years of unemployment follow until Honey is taken on as a ballet mistress for a London Musical and in a flu epidemic is forced to take over a major role in a revue. She takes London by storm and is the IT girl of London West End Musicals where she it said to be "The best thing in London" Men love her and women would love to be her. She is enchanting.</p><p>She is invited by an Australian aboriginal theatre director to accompany him to Apartheid South Africa. Here again she is treated like a goddess while witnessing the horrors of extreme racism all around her especially her visits to the Catholic Cathedral in Johannesburg, the only place in SA where there is no apartheid where she is spat upon by the White boar inhabitants for attending Mass. </p><p>Well you get the picture! Honey ends up marrying a brilliant Oxford educated doctor who has mixed race practise in Auckland NZ, She runs a small professional opera ballet company in Auckland New Zealand where she becomes a Woman of the Year for her services to The Arts, gives birth to a brilliant daughter who goes on to be a senior scholar at her University, becomes an international Rhythmic gymnast and goes to live in Italy to get away from her mother. Honey's ballet shows for Children in the school holidays rival audiences for rugby and cricket. </p><p>Meanwhile Honey trains the NZ team which wins a Gold medal at the Commonwealth Games. But her husband dies young and Honey catches a super bug in the local hospital that nearly kills her. Her physical illness is mistaken for grief and the drugs given for depression nearly kill her. Left alone and with a highly compromised immune system and a cold turkey withdrawal she slowly recovers and makes and sells DVDs on Amazon.com and now write novels like Danielle Steel. </p><p>The above is a précis of my life and is only a tiny part of it. I left out the bit where I escaped being raped by a white South African policeman by climbing out of a second floor window and inching along an edge to another bedroom and much more. </p><p>My life has been just as unbelievable as any Steel heroine. I suppose the is why I bond with her heroines as they remind me of me and my life's experience. No wonder I find it hard to fit it. I am the consummate outsider!</p><p>DorothyL Sayers and Lord Peter Wimsy reminded me of my husband but Danielle Steel is me! I admire Danielle Steel who wrote <i>The Mistress</i> when in her 70's. The world needs more women like her and dare I say it me who are larger than life, take what life throws at them, struggles against the odds and sometimes, just sometimes succeed!</p><p><br /></p><div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: center;"><iframe allowfullscreen="" class="BLOG_video_class" height="266" src="https://www.youtube.com/embed/cSvaE5DfegE" width="320" youtube-src-id="cSvaE5DfegE"></iframe></div><br /><p><br /></p>Janette Miller's Strange Lifehttp://www.blogger.com/profile/13140107668977991878noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2267077847332364144.post-7649442977485884652021-07-10T11:49:00.003-07:002021-07-10T11:49:50.810-07:00My Daily Journey to School in Baker Street London in 1956<div class="kvgmc6g5 cxmmr5t8 oygrvhab hcukyx3x c1et5uql ii04i59q" style="caret-color: rgb(5, 5, 5); color: #050505; font-size: 15px; margin: 0px; white-space: pre-wrap; word-wrap: break-word;"><div dir="auto"><div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: center;"><a href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEibsgqot5EhxsesI81oZ7AMfvqsZjKjNXeEWy3KaN2DcWkBe-CHUAYvy3rWeF7vtRWjowymWAszeiZv2AG-8ovK9Y2dfXelZeSLG-vefvtgjfJBDNGKu5xrvLc8iWKB0VCM5-sQ9-eIB40/s1596/Screen+Shot+2021-07-11+at+6.43.30+AM.png" imageanchor="1" style="margin-left: 1em; margin-right: 1em;"><img border="0" data-original-height="822" data-original-width="1596" height="208" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEibsgqot5EhxsesI81oZ7AMfvqsZjKjNXeEWy3KaN2DcWkBe-CHUAYvy3rWeF7vtRWjowymWAszeiZv2AG-8ovK9Y2dfXelZeSLG-vefvtgjfJBDNGKu5xrvLc8iWKB0VCM5-sQ9-eIB40/w400-h208/Screen+Shot+2021-07-11+at+6.43.30+AM.png" width="400" /></a></div><br /><span style="font-family: arial;"><br /></span></div><div dir="auto"><span style="font-family: arial;"><br /></span></div><div dir="auto"><span style="font-family: arial;">This YouTube virtual bus trip shows my walk from my ballet school, AES, near Baker Street in London, in 1956 . AES was near Portman Square and I had to walk the length of Baker Stree to get to and from the Baker Street Tube Station where I took 2 Tubes to Stanmore nearly 25 Miles away I was 13 and I did this trip alone for over 2.5 years as a young teenager.</span></div></div><div class="o9v6fnle cxmmr5t8 oygrvhab hcukyx3x c1et5uql ii04i59q" style="caret-color: rgb(5, 5, 5); color: #050505; font-size: 15px; margin: 0.5em 0px 0px; white-space: pre-wrap; word-wrap: break-word;"><div dir="auto"><span style="font-family: arial;">In 1957 this area was still a huge bomb site and nearly all the buildings are post war. London could not function without tubes. I hardly ever used a car in the 14 years I worked in London.</span></div><div dir="auto"><span style="color: #050505; font-family: arial;"><br /></span></div><div dir="auto"><span style="color: #050505; font-family: arial;">Notice it is raining! I used to get wet. I spent 1d and caught the bus but if dry I walked. I had another long walk at the other end. Selfridges is at the start out of shot. I used it as my dairy for lichees and chocolate violet creams. I could afford just one a day, not both! I was very precocious! Still am on some occasions.</span></div><div dir="auto"><span style="color: #050505; font-family: arial;"><br /></span></div><div dir="auto"><span style="color: #050505; font-family: arial;">The buses in my time carried far more passengers. I hardly ever got a seat. We were crammed in. After this I did 3 hours of ballet, tap etc. and sometimes after school I would go to work at Covent Garden as my after school activity. Many of us did this.</span></div><div dir="auto"><span style="font-family: arial;"><br /></span></div><div dir="auto"><span style="font-family: arial;"> </span></div></div><iframe allow="accelerometer; autoplay; clipboard-write; encrypted-media; gyroscope; picture-in-picture" allowfullscreen="" frameborder="0" height="315" src="https://www.youtube.com/embed/b63Bk_2lJdo" title="YouTube video player" width="560"></iframe><div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: center;"><br /></div><br />Janette Miller's Strange Lifehttp://www.blogger.com/profile/13140107668977991878noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2267077847332364144.post-4095171413365776602020-11-13T10:50:00.002-08:002020-11-13T10:50:52.877-08:00Art theft problems New Zealand 2020<p><table align="center" cellpadding="0" cellspacing="0" class="tr-caption-container" style="margin-left: auto; margin-right: auto;"><tbody><tr><td style="text-align: center;"><a href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEjKnwONUzRPZB2xjJC8kSHRVtszDzcyuG8h3D1fYdlsHs57Hi4zpDovMqF2mr8I0cfAzUBwuVaE5y6ber2OMdBZdj1f0_T0sYSuQ9s3DWrnPbs-ftiTacQBUwzVRfhiBOmMBdAgGjWrtVc/s190/JM_+BCard_+Logo_10-01.jpg" imageanchor="1" style="margin-left: auto; margin-right: auto;"><img border="0" data-original-height="147" data-original-width="190" height="309" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEjKnwONUzRPZB2xjJC8kSHRVtszDzcyuG8h3D1fYdlsHs57Hi4zpDovMqF2mr8I0cfAzUBwuVaE5y6ber2OMdBZdj1f0_T0sYSuQ9s3DWrnPbs-ftiTacQBUwzVRfhiBOmMBdAgGjWrtVc/w400-h309/JM_+BCard_+Logo_10-01.jpg" width="400" /></a></td></tr><tr><td class="tr-caption" style="text-align: center;"> Logo Beethoven Act 2 Tony Fomison <br />© janette miller</td></tr></tbody></table></p><p>I am not the only person to be affected by forgeries and knock offs. The BNZ & Auckland Art galleries have bought or been gifted unauthorised copies of my commissioned artworks both being sold under "buyer beware". </p><p></p><p>I had to go to court to find out which was expensive for all the parties concerned. I too was the victim of a forged letter which looks very convincing until you know the address and the signature are incorrect. My case defence relied on this letter as evidence. </p><p>It seems buyers of NZ art need to be very careful of provenance. Do not buy unless you check the title. Make sure the artwork is signed even though sold by the artist's agent and it is not a commissioned work. Buying of an agent is fraught with dangers of the Sale of Goods Act 1908 I thought I was the only one. There you go!</p><p><br /></p><p><br /><br /></p>Janette Miller's Strange Lifehttp://www.blogger.com/profile/13140107668977991878noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2267077847332364144.post-57543954445600236632017-10-27T13:31:00.000-07:002017-10-27T13:31:26.191-07:00The Student Prince and Janette Miller<table align="center" cellpadding="0" cellspacing="0" class="tr-caption-container" style="margin-left: auto; margin-right: auto; text-align: center;"><tbody>
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It is strange to be dragged back into one's youth at the ripe old age of 73. This week I was reminded that I had played<i> Kathie </i>in the Sigmund Romberg musical of the 1920's when I was just 20. It is a period of my life that I have chosen to forget as although I was good at musicals I wanted to produce opera but life is life and one must eat so I was forced to be in them and I did enjoy the camaraderie of the theatre.<br />
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I remember getting the job to tour 14 cities in England in the mid 1960s. In those days there was a career path and I was well on my way. I had risen from tour to London Musical in the chorus. Ruth Madoc and I had very minor roles in the ill fated but fondly remembered <i>House of Cards </i>produced by The Players organisation at the Phoenix and I auditioned for two roles. One was for <i>The Admiral Crichton </i>which I got but the company was procrastinating about when it would begin and the other was for unhappy<i> Princess</i> in <i>The Student Prince </i>which was to star<a href="https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Cbn3aONmDPA" target="_blank"> </a><a href="https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=C2GivwSboXM" target="_blank">Bryan Johnson </a>who had made such a hit in the European Song contest.<br />
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With no sign of the Crichton role materialising I accepted the<i> Princess</i> part in the <i>Student Prince</i>. I knew I could make a good show of this Lady Di part. It had a nice easy to sing number and I was right for it. To get into London in a major role it would be useful to have played a role on tour. The rehearsals were just about to start, I had bought a little second hand red mini minor to drive myself around UK as I had done it by trains and said <i>never again.</i><br />
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Then came the bombshell. The leading lady had had to withdraw at the last moment and I suppose the company was desperate so they offered the role to me. This of course was a huge step up professionally and an honour but I was initially wary. I knew that I was just not right for <i>Kathie </i>who is a Bavarian Innkeepers daughter. I am perceived as middle-class English and even in those days type casting was becoming the norm. They needed a Barbra Windsor who could sing not me. Besides that I have never had a full top C. I have a stunning <i>B in alt</i> but some days I cannot reach a <i>Top C</i> so I told the company this and I was happy to stay where I had been cast. But they were desperate so I said <i>yes </i>but only if they would take the duet down a semi tone. The employers promised they would and they didn't. I was most unhappy.<br />
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So I had days to relearn my part and do the best I could. The only thing I could think of was<i> Giselle. </i> I should have to play <i>Kathie </i>as Giselle who although a peasant girl is so young, appealing and virginal that she attracts a genuine Royal suitor. Today royal mistresses get to marry their princes and become Queens but back in 1965 the Lady Di debacle was still to come.<br />
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I think I got away with it. Three days before we opened in Oxford the Crichton Company wanted me to break my contract and go with them. I was unhappy and should have loved to have had a year in London's West End in a decent role that suited but I couldn't do it morally so I had to see this through.<br />
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I had little direction or time to research. NO internet in those days. My hair was too short for a plat and the company refused to buy me a wig so I knew my hair was all wrong and there was nothing I could do. My make up to begin with was a disaster but Bryan Jonson had a wonderful make up artist friend who came down, sorted out my make up by virtually removing it all and I have lived with her advise successfully ever since. The top C's were a nightly problem but I have a recording of myself, the only one I have with an orchestra and in fact I sound quite acceptable, in fact I sound rather good but after that I always refused to sing Top C's.<br />
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But the experience was so valuable. 14 UK cities in a row certainly does things to your voice. Bryan had the most enormous Wagnerian voice and I was straight out of singing in rooms at The Guildhall School of Music and Drama. There was no vocal enhancement in those days. This made me push my voice too hard and it was only in later life when I started to record using Garageband and hear myself sing that I began to like the sound of my voice.<br />
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My speaking voice was just too cultured and if I had had a director he would have stopped me and made me roughen up but then I should not have been me and as the stage is the mirror of the soul I don't think I should have been so convincing. It is emotionally draining making an audience cry their eyes out every night and at the end of 14 weeks of this one becomes cynical.<br />
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We ended in Wolverhampton. I was moving on to The Windsor Pantomime. It was the first time I had seen the last curtain come down and not think I might never see it go up again. I had played Bournemouth the week before and rehearsed Windsor! That is a feat I suggest nobody tries!<br />
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I was glad to say<i> Goodbye</i> to <i>Kathie. </i>I did not return when the tour resumed.<br />
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Strangely I had another encounter with <i>The Student Prince</i>. I had made a success in <i>The Desert Song </i>playing the comedy lead Susan, a part that did suit me down to the ground and John Hanson asked me to play<i> Gretchen </i> which again needs a young Barbara Windsor. Even though it meant a year in London I could not face it. I was wrong to begin and I had played and sung <i>Kathie </i>and I needed to escape the clutches of <i>The Red Shadow. </i>I asked if I could play <i>The Princess,</i> I was right for that but Hanson could not see me as a singer only as a comedian and dancer. He was wrong. I am a singer.<br />
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Now in the wake of Lady Di <i>The Student Prince</i> is no longer relevant and musicals and I moved on but the old 1920's musicals still have an appeal and a structure that is hard to beat. I and the world have consigned them to memory. I have fortunately never had to produce one!<br />
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<br />Janette Miller's Strange Lifehttp://www.blogger.com/profile/13140107668977991878noreply@blogger.com1tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2267077847332364144.post-53894462215597009102014-09-03T22:25:00.000-07:002014-09-03T22:41:02.355-07:00How to answer the BBC in 1988<table align="center" cellpadding="0" cellspacing="0" class="tr-caption-container" style="margin-left: auto; margin-right: auto; text-align: center;"><tbody>
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In 1988 I was <i>honoured </i>by a commission from the BBC Children's Department for my<b><a href="http://www.dancetalesstoryballets.com/" target="_blank"> Dance Tales </a></b>story ballets series. This was the first and only time TVNZ had actually had an entertainment programme concept accepted so it was important that everything went well. I was the first woman independent director into the bargain as <i>their boys would not take directions from me! </i>I was informed. It was the 1980s!<br />
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Sad to say my experience with this BBC department was a nightmare. The BBC felt they were dealing with colonials and colonials needed to be kept in their place. They made life impossible. They insisted on having the choice of ballets. I sent 60 possibles and the BBC chose five, one <i>The Little Match Girl</i> for their Christmas programmes. The BBC insisted on choice of voice for voice overs and although audition tapes were sent three months before production refused to say if the voices I had chosen were acceptable. Even after many letters and eventually expensive toll calls I never received an answer.<br />
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I just went ahead! The male narrator had a soft East Enders accent and I had the received English. It was and still is a good choice especially as in hindsight the BBC of those days is now rather over the top. The BBC was furious and wanted me to rerecord. On my budget this was out of the question so I stood up for my actor. Fortunately the BBC liked my voice!<br />
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All through production I received the most hostile epistles. My commercial half hour productions relied heavily on expensive after effects which again are essential today but the BBC insisted that in the 15 minute versions not one effect was in sight. This was because in those days the BBC could not afford the effects and if the British children were introduced to them they would insist on them all their programmes. The BBC went to great lengths to see that this did not happen.<br />
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The programme sample VHS were delivered on time but were not shown at Christmas and it was not until Easter that they were put into the schedule. Easter Week has just three days so two programmes were not wanted and the BBC decided not to pay for these. They did not tell me this but just said two of the programmes were not up to standard and not required. This was very serious for me as I relied on this payment.<br />
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The BBC were adamant and turned nasty. They cancelled all five. I too was furious and hurt as I felt that the programmes which were good enough to be finalists for the LA Monitor Awards for technical excellence were worth broadcasting by the BBC and they had chosen them.<br />
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I went straight to the top. I wrote a long letter to the Director General complaining of the treatment that had been metered out to my small professional opera/ballet company and asked him to have a look. A few days later I got a call from the BBC Children's Television telling me that the BBC had found they could use the programmes after all. Victory!<br />
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BUT there was still the sting in the BBC's tail. When we sent the final finished tapes I received this telegram in Auckland New Zealand dated 20 April 1988:<br />
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REGRET MATERIAL SENT IN RESPECT OF DANCE TALES TECHNICALLY UNACCEPTABLE. YOU HAVE SUPPLIED PLASTIC G SPOOLS WHICH CAN SPIN ON THE MACHINE. CLAUSE 7 OF THE CONTRACT CALLS FOR1' METAL SPOOLS. FORMAT PAL . </blockquote>
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THE G SPOOLS ARE BEING RETURNED TO YOU. LET ME KNOW WHEN THE CORRECT MATERIAL WILL BE SENT.</blockquote>
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MS DUGGAN.</blockquote>
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London to Auckland and back is 22 thousand miles and the tapes had already cost a fortune to send by airmail as they were so heavy. I was not happy. I rang my wonderful Executive Producer at Vidcom.<br />
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Bill Harman who had the most delightful cockney voice ever and who voiced <i>The Carpenter</i> in <i>Walrus and Carpenter</i> was up to the BBC and wrote them a letter. A letter of such brilliance I wish I had composed it myself. It summed up all the BBC silliness in a few simple phrases.<br />
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<b><i>Vidcom Ltd, Auckland, NZ</i></b> </blockquote>
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20 April 1988</blockquote>
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Dear Ms Duggan<i><br /></i><i><b>Re Dance Tales </b></i><i><b><br /></b></i>
As the production house that produced these programmes, we have been informed by Janette Heffernan that you have rejected the programmes due to the tapes being wound onto small plastic "G" spools which can spin.</blockquote>
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We do not encounter this problem as we use up-to-date Ampex VPR 3 machines, but would suggest is your VTR's are not compatible that you re-spool the tapes onto reels which will function correctly for you rather than send them back to us <i>(in NZ) </i>to put onto metal spools.</blockquote>
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If this is not possible, please contact me so that I can arrange for an independent production house in London to re-spool them for you to save an inordinate amount of time and unnecessary freighting.</blockquote>
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Yours sincerely<br />
Bill Harman<br />
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We never heard another word. The programmes were a great success all over the world but the BBC Children's Department did not survive the year and I am not surprised.<br />
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<br />Janette Miller's Strange Lifehttp://www.blogger.com/profile/13140107668977991878noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2267077847332364144.post-27162561741574906822014-08-10T01:52:00.000-07:002014-09-03T22:27:05.104-07:00Hugh Miller Golf Ball Manufacturer The Professional Golfer June 1924<i>I thought I knew about my grandfather's early life until I found this article in The Professional Golfer June 1924 Page 4. Just shows you how wrong one's family can be on occasions.</i><br />
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Our readers will have no difficulty in recognising the familiar features of Hugh Miller whose picture appears in this issue. Hugh is rather bashful where autobiography is concerned, but I have managed to extract from him a few particulars concerning his own career which will doubtless interest the "boys".<br />
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Hugh is of course a Caledonian.His school days, however were all spent in the U.S.A. These over , he returned to Scotland and entered the firm of his late uncle, Mr. Hugh Miller (Messrs. Miller and Taylor) as an employee. In 1904 Hugh assisted his uncle in experimenting in the manufacture of rubber-cores, and when the firm put their first ball on the market ( The "Reliance") Hugh started to travel among the professionals, covering practically the whole of the British Isles. As time went on the firm decided it would be more convenient if Hugh made his headquarters in London, and he accordingly moved south as their London agent. This was in 1910.<br />
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The firm was located at 10 Dyer's Buildings Holborn, and Hugh carried on here until he joined the forces, serving in the Mechanical Transport. On his demobilisation in 1919 he joined Messrs. Miller and Taylor and remained with them until February 1922 when he left the golf trade - as he thought, for good. But three months were as long as he could stay away from the "boys," and in May of the same year he started out in business for himself, from the old address of 10 Dyer's Building which he had taken over.<br />
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Many a joke was cracked over his venture in being the pioneer in taking round his goods in a "tin lizzie" and no one enjoyed them more than "the victim", but all good things come to an end, and on selling his business in April to Mr. D.M. Stocks, son of the well known caddie bag maker of Edinburgh, Hugh joined the firm of Messrs. Game-Balls Co.Ltd. of Brentford, Middlesex as golf ball sales Manager.<br />
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To use his own words, Hugh is "convinced that his firm has the goods." while we, for our part, wish him every possible fortune in his new venture. At any rate his heart is in the golf trade: he will be in his element in his new and responsible post and success must come.<br />
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It did! Grand Father Miller knew success and failure. He made and lost three fortunes. The first loss was when his uncle Hugh Miller who had relied on his nephew running the firm since 1904 died having promised the firm. Instead in 1922 it seems, uncle Hugh left his firm and fortune to Hugh's younger twin sisters Martha and Mary Miller remarking in the will that <i>Hugh Miller was a young man and well able to make his way in the world</i>. My grandfather left with an inscribed silver plate and nothing else.<br />
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The Harlequin Golf Ball of 1924, <i>The Magic Performer from Tee to Green,</i> was manufactured by the Game Balls Co. and cost 2/6. One was sold by Christies in 1996 for £1000.<br />
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He made another fortune with the multi coloured golf umbrella which we all know today.<br />
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At the start of World War II my father, who had been a young Lloyds underwriter, a job which he hated had enlisted as a Special Constable and for the first 18 months of the war had been billeted in St James's Park near Hyde Park Corner.</div>
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During on enemy raid in 1941 the traffic lights in Central London went down and it was up to the likes of my young and inexperienced father to keep the roads of the West End moving My father had to step in it appears without any prior training and take on perhaps one of the most challenging roundabouts in the whole of the city, Hyde Park Corner, as Oedipus will relate, a place where three roads meet.<br />
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A passing journalist was so impressed at my father's performance that he wrote a review of which my father was particularly proud and he kept it for years in his wallet and he would produce it at suitable moments to impress anyone unwise enough to give him the opportunity. Sadly this precious fragment was lost until tonight cleaning out the attic I came across his old army kit bag. There is was and here it is:<br />
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Up at Hyde Park Corner I found the perfect Traffic Special. He was in complete control of the roadway where is says "Piccadilly Traffic," "Knightsbridge Traffic", "Hyde Park Corner Traffic".<br />
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With just the right professional touch he pulled them up and let them go. He looked professionally bored. He had accepted just that "Am I wasting my time on you?" expression of the true traffic policeman.</blockquote>
My father loved to tell these stories of his adventures during the War but regretfully they fell on stoney ground with me. I cannot recall one of them so it is with some pleasure that I can add this to my blog as a sort of apology for being so unkind. I would expect that the unknown journalist too would be surprised that this tiny entry knocked off in a few minutes would be remembered 75 years after the event.<br />
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My father could have stayed in the Specials as it was a reserved job and indeed he was awarded the Territorial Medal which is the Dad's Army medal but he chose to go into the army as a private. As can be seen from this story Daddy had talent for leadership and with three weeks he was spotted sent to Octu and became an Officer. He ended up a Major. Janette Miller's Strange Lifehttp://www.blogger.com/profile/13140107668977991878noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2267077847332364144.post-21779311614595896292014-08-04T13:17:00.001-07:002014-08-04T13:17:49.720-07:00Glasgow Home of my Ancestors<div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: center;">
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My grandfather, Hugh Miller, came from the slums of Glasgow. He made a fortune by giving the world the multi coloured golf umbrella. He bought Mackintosh furniture in 1900 which I still possess but he left for London, admittedly he was shafted by his family. He was not left the family firm which was gifted by his uncle to his two sisters after Hugh had made the fortune as according to his uncle <i>Hugh was a young man and well able to look after himself. </i>Hugh<i> </i>sent his son, Hughie, my father to Glasgow Academy, which my father hated and never returned.<br />
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He retained his Glaswegian accent and so did my father but they never returned and I have never been either. For them Glasgow was a grim reminder of a life they disliked rather like my aversion to the semi detached in Canons Park where I lived for 18 years after the war.<br />
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I have never set foot in Glasgow so from the safety of New Zealand where I choose to live as it is so beautiful and the weather is acceptable it was fascinating to watch Glasgow's Commonwealth Games which I think may give a rather true picture of a rather dour place. I think is is a near as I shall ever get to the home of my ancestors.<br />
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Once in a blue moon one has the sort of day that surprises the living daylights out of you and turns from a hum drum day into that special memorable moment. It is not planned. It is not expected but fate intervenes and it just happens. It is one of those magical days you will never forget. I had such a day when unexpectedly I was taken to Baden Baden<i> for a walk!</i></div>
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<span style="text-align: left;">The day had not started well. I was in Germany, a country I had vowed </span>since my youth, never to visit. Living in London during and after the Second World War had put me off Germany for life. I lived daily with the damage the bombs had done but I was forced to visit as my daughter was competing in a gym competition in Karlsruhr so I had to go.</div>
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The Rythmic gym trip to see my daughter compete internationally in several European countries and then to travel on to Venice, Paris, London and LA should have been the trip of a lifetime but had turned into a nightmare for me. I had been promised in NZ that all arrangements had been made for me. I should travel as part of the NZ team and be treated as one of them. Unfortunately this was incorrect. Although my airfares had been booked as part of the team nothing else was, no hotels and more importantly no passes to events. I had to beg my way around Europe. The official coach Leslie could not have been more unhelpful or nastier and took a delight in being offensive. I was not invited to any function, but I just went anyway. It made me feel as if I was definitely not wanted on voyage.</div>
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It was the last day and Stephan, our designated host, had arranged a trip in a van so we could see some of the local scenery, i.e. The Black Forest. Everyone was tired out and not enthusiastic. I had had a particularly nasty night as I had been left out of a 'do' yet again. Stephan I found irritating too. When I had tried out my less than brilliant German he had gone into a long explanation about the different <i>cases. </i>I was only trying out my German ! So in all I was not a happy bunny. </div>
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But the trip was arranged so I thought I ought to go. The start was not encouraging. The Black Forest is rather overrated to a native of New Zealand. All the fir trees looked ill thanks to the acid rain. A local beauty spot looked very poor beer in comparison to some of the NZ lakes and the van was none too new. I wanted to go home! We drove up a mountain and the van was parked in a field and we were told we had to walk down the mountain into Baden Baden where we would be met at the bottom. This I felt <b>was the last straw. </b> I had my wrong shoes on and I did not want to walk anywhere. However the driver insisted I walked and refused to let me ride with him.</div>
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He dumped us and drove off. <b><a href="http://janetteheffernan.com/germany/index.htm?detectflash=false&" target="_blank">It was the best thing that had ever happened to me.</a></b> I was left in the middle of a field of yellow daffodils that you see above for as far as the eye could see. It was May and the countryside when I really looked was awash with blossom of all colours. The day was balmy and warm and the sky was blue flecked with white clouds. There was absolutely no noise but the hum of bees in the clover.</div>
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I took a deep breathe and realised I was standing in the opening shot of <i>The Sound of Music. </i>As I started to walk I realised that perhaps this might be something out of the ordinary. It certainly was. This one walk is one that I shall always remember. It was an<i> epiphany. </i>It took us about one hour to walk the path down to the Spa town of Baden Baden. Down and down we went, through the Alpine meadows into the valley where the town was situated. All the way were wonderful views to enjoy and every house was surrounded by bulbs and blossom. The scent was intoxicating. It was like walking through a Grimm's fairy tale and a perfume factory.</div>
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My mood changed. I began to appreciate just how beautiful the world was. The warm day, the smell of the spring flowers, the wonderful feeling of the joy of life. Oh why isn't life always just like this moment. I wanted to find an excuse to stay like the hero of <i>The Magic Mountain </i>by Thomas Mann who does. He thought he might have TB and stayed for seven years in his sanitarium in Davos only to be rooted out by the Great War.</div>
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On the way we passed a romantic German Schloss with the grounds teaming with colourful tulips and cherry blossoms. Snow White's castle perhaps? Down to the old steps with iron gas lights that Stephan climbed and lit. I used to watch the lamp lighters at home in London come with a long pole and light the gas and now Stephan was showing me how it was done.</div>
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At last we reached the attractive town square for coffee and kucken. I found to my surprise and delight that traditional Black Forest Gateau was actually white. Then we sauntered around the Spa, Baden Baden is an expensive spa resort but you can drink the healing waters for free. It tasted awful, like warm weathered vegetable stock but you can't have everything. That unexpected walk made me feel good to be alive. I felt ecstatic. This alone was worth the journey from NZ and Stephan annoying though he had been had given me a day I shall treasure. I never would have believed that anything could be so glorious.</div>
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It was one of life's bonuses. Something unexpected and life changing. I knew I was privileged to be in Baden Baden. I wanted to stay forever which of course I could not and if I did <i>the dream </i>would fade as <i>the light of day</i> break through. If I had to choose one walk or even one perfect morning in my life this would be it. I was totally alone amongst people who really wished I was not with them but this did not seem to matter. I could enjoy it without them although it would have been nicer with them. It was one of those elusive moments in life when one is truly happy.</div>
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Cleaning out an attic after a life time has been a daunting operation. I have had to confront 40 years of things that are only worth pennies today but were too nice to throw away. Nobody wants old dresses or costumes any more. They are binned.<br />
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However I cannot bin them and over the years I have opened up my cavernous attic and just thrown things in but today I have to have a new bathroom if I want to remain in my house and that means clearing the attic. Citizen Kane has nothing on me. Day by day a life time of memories is parading before me and I delight in every one of them. Things, unlike people on some occasions, are just objects of pure joy and so it is with the dress above. The photo does not do this beautiful dress justice. It<i> has a curious story</i> as the prologue from <b><i>The Turn of The Screw</i></b> so rightly puts it because the fabric of this dress came from Benjamin Britten.<br />
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I was nineteen, small for my age but very beautiful. I had known Mr Britten for four years but it was only this year that he took a personal interest in me. He was a perfect gentleman and a delightful friend I was bright and very intelligent and fun. I like the things that he enjoyed, Mahler, Bartok, sports cars and Gaudia Bretzka! I was performing in The Screw at Rosehill a delicious tiny theatre run by the silk millionaire Mickie Sekers who was so rich he could afford to bring the whole Covent Garden cast including Britten and Pears to Whitehaven where his mills were located for three weeks at the best hotel in St. Bees.<br />
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For those few months I was Britten's favourite although in truth I did not realise it at the time. I don't think he had ever met or talked to a girl of my age and I think he found the experience new and enjoyable. During this time and for a couple of years after I was spoilt by him. He gave me tickets to concerts and invitations to concerts and sit with him even when he saw me in the crowd outside. I found his company enjoyable as he had so much that I would like in life but he envied me my life too. Ah if only he had been 19 and not 50! But he was 50 and I was 19!<br />
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As a treat it was announced that the three ladies of the cast and Ben, Peter were to be given 6 metres of what ever fabric they chose when we all visited the Sekers factory. It seemed that Quint being a man and Miles and Flora being children although I was 19, didn't count. I was used to this situation by now. When it came to my turn somehow the rules are changed. I was not amused and I unlike the others had the ear of the master. Why no one noticed that I shall never know. I just told him that is was unfair that three of us should be excluded. Ben was immediately sympathetic and we were upgraded without further a do.<br />
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The mills lived up to their reputation and were satanic and noisy. One would go deaf I reckoned in about a week. After much deliberation I decided on 6 metres of a beautiful Prussian blue striped silk satin. I knew that this would look glorious as a gathered skirt for the evening and I look good in this colour, especially with white. I was thrilled as I could never have afforded to buy such luxurious material and to see it being made was fascinating. An afternoon I shall never forget.<br />
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However Ben did not accompany us that day so the next morning he asked me to bring and show him what I had chosen the following day which I did. I humped 6 metres of blue satin to rehearsal. It was on a big roll so as not to crease it and this caused a furore in the Pullman car and comments of Flora being annoying. Being<i> Flora</i> was not fun. Ben liked my choice very much. He said<i> I had perfect taste </i>but he thought it might be difficult to find something for the bodice. Obviously the large stripes would not suit. I said I thought a white blouse would do it and in truth I think would have been the best choice but Ben was not convinced.<br />
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To my surprise the next day another 6 metres of plain blue silk satin arrived on a roll at my hotel for <i>Die Schöne</i> Müllerin, (my name is Miller) much to the surprise and annoyance of the rest of the company. Flora had been given 12 metres and everyone else had to make do with 6! Britten had asked Mickie Sekers as a favour and Sekers complied. Years later I needed a recital gown and I had the material made up by Morris Angel the theatrical costumier in Shaftsbury Avenue. It had the prettiest little corset to make it look beautiful and a tiny pad in one shoulder as my shoulders are uneven.<br />
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When I think back on this I have a horrible feeling I never said a proper <i>thank you </i>to Mr. Britten for going to all that trouble on my behalf. I could be thoughtless as many 19 years old are. I remember the feeling of hostility from some of the cast and especially Britten's older ladies of whom he had one or two. Viola Tunard was so sharp I cut myself on her more than once as she was so jealous. Peter Pears was <i>not amused</i> either. He used to call me <i>My Dear Young Lady</i> in public and <i>Die Schöne Müllerin</i> in private! But I was 19 and blissfully unaware that I was the current favourite and youth can be cruel. I knew I did not belong to their world and I had other things I wanted to do. Maybe that was the attraction as I was unobtainable. I wonder how many other young women were given beautiful material from Benjamin Britten? And I still have the dress.<br />
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<br />Janette Miller's Strange Lifehttp://www.blogger.com/profile/13140107668977991878noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2267077847332364144.post-42243676864096891232014-01-04T10:45:00.002-08:002019-09-27T19:11:43.308-07:00Brixham and the Perfect 1950's Childhood<div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: center;">
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Brixham is a traditional fishing village in Torbay. South Devon and 40 years ago was fairly unspoilt and the perfect place to spend one's schools holiday.<br />
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The first time I saw Brixham was in at Easter in 1954. My two maiden aunts Flo and Jo Thorpe had bought a small gift shop which they named Variety Fayre in Middle Street, Brixham. It was love at first sight. Originally the shop had been a typical Fisherman's cottage hewn out of the rock with a brick frontage, which was actually falling down and inside was a rickety staircase which led to three floors.<br />
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It was the place itself that I fell in love with. It was so different from the semi detached streets of Stanmore. It was wild and romantic.<br />
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Across the road was the William of Orange Pub which date back to the 17th Century and in which King William of Orange spent his first night on English shore in 1688. A statue of the King, with the usual seagull on his head, graced the harbour. Middle Street had just enough room for one car and and one could almost touch the butcher's. When it rained the water ran down the street. This historic building was unceremoniously pulled down in favour of a road to ease the traffic flow. It took a season and cost a fortune and on the first day of the road opening cars parked on it this narrowing the road again. It was the most expensive car park ever and took years to receive a no parking zone. What a cultural crime.<br />
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Brixham in those days was a working harbour with the daily fish market and the smell of fish a few yards away. It was fun to watch the fish being hauled ashore and hear the auctioneer's prattle. The harbour was full of trawlers and sea gulls. Brixham seagulls are garrulous and noisy.<br />
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The little town was built layer upon layer into the cliff. The church had the only clarion of bells in England that played a tune. "Abide with Me" was struck out at 6 pm every night to honour the fact that this most famous of hymns was written by the local vicar who decided to commit suicide and jump off the local cliff at Berry Head on to see the sunset and sit down and write <i>Abide with Me </i>instead. This hymn was a favourite of George VI who had it played at the Cup Final at Wembley where my grandfather was chief accountant so I suppose it would be a suitable choice for my funeral if I have one. My family do not do funerals.<br />
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It was heaven and in this heaven I spent every Easter and summer holiday until well into my teens usually with my cousins Gillian and occasionally John and my mother. We all adored it. It was like a living <i>Swallows and Amazons</i>, as children had more freedom in those days and we spent days messing about in boats, swimming and for me riding. Primrosing was another delight, long walks across the cliffs with poles to tie bunches of primroses on. We even found a few wild violets.<br />
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What I adored was the fact the grass went right down to the beach not the miles of concrete esplanade that I was used to see.<br />
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I have not been back in 40 years and in truth Brixham does not look so different today in the postcards but I suspect it has been prettified. This started very soon after my aunts arrived. I can see from the maps that vast areas of rustic farmland have been covered in concrete and the primrose and violet paths have gone but I still love it. Ah the dreams of youth!<br />
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PS: Recently I watched <i>Restoration Man, </i>a TV programme that featured the restoration of a church in Brixham which I found fascinating. There seemed to be parts of Brixham that I did not recognise, in fact a lot of Brixham that I did not recognise. A quick tour on Google Earth soon filled me in. In my day 1954 to 1970 Birixham did not look like an apology for an Italian fishing village with all those pink and blue houses. In my day Brixham was grey and working class and I loved it like that. Now it is a bit precious.<br />
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Also a coastal path has been added which I think looks rather nice. The restored church looks wonderful but I am not sure the old fishermen would have approved.<br />
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<br />Janette Miller's Strange Lifehttp://www.blogger.com/profile/13140107668977991878noreply@blogger.com1tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2267077847332364144.post-7524742856078614952014-01-03T00:06:00.000-08:002014-01-03T00:06:07.295-08:00Auntie Jo'sThamesway Theatre<table align="center" cellpadding="0" cellspacing="0" class="tr-caption-container" style="margin-left: auto; margin-right: auto; text-align: center;"><tbody>
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<span style="font-family: Trebuchet MS, sans-serif;">I think my love of theatre can be attributed to my beautifully, brilliant and eccentric Auntie Jo who played the piano, taught dancing to young ladies, was a superb secretary and manager and loved the theatre.</span><br />
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<span style="font-family: Trebuchet MS, sans-serif;">Auntie Jo had a theatre of her own, a toy theatre which had lights and a curtain. She would produce a pantomime for the family at Christmas. Rehearsals were held in secret so that we children had no idea of what was in store and then after the Christmas feast was cleared up the huge dining room would be turned into a theatre.</span><br />
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<span style="font-family: Trebuchet MS, sans-serif;">It was magic. Christmas at Thamesway was unforgettable and for me every Christmas is judged on this standard. So far only one has been as good.</span><br />
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<span style="font-family: Trebuchet MS, sans-serif;">Local children were invited to this performance and this is how I met Pam Vincent/Burke who's mother and father ran the cafe down the road. Pam and I loved it and I think this is what made us both decide to go on the stage. This was the beginning of a lifelong friendship and Pam has become my sort of sister. She too can verify that this performance was <i>magic</i> and made the rather bleak postwar Christmas truly one out of the box.</span><br />
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<span style="font-family: Trebuchet MS, sans-serif;">Jack in the Beanstalk,1946 was the most memorable pantomime and the grown up's worked so hard to make it a proper grown up affair. We all loved Jack hiding in the fireplace and we screamed at the Giant who because he was paper on a stick weighted with a penny was <i>enormous. </i>We all rushed to the theatre when the Giant fell down the beanstalk to his death!</span><br />
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<span style="font-family: Trebuchet MS, sans-serif;">Daddy took it home to Stanmore and made a few additions. He rewired the footlights and added a proscenium arch. Mummy made a new curtain. </span><br />
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<span style="font-family: 'Trebuchet MS', sans-serif;">Aunty Jo went on to produce The Coronation and I had to spend hours cutting out the Royal Procession. We did it in 1953. Aunty Jo had the night before at the Palace with Princess Margaret dressed in green tulle and sequins, smoking and playing the piano. Aunty Jo made my cousin Gillian and I rehearse for days to get it quite right. It was very impressive.</span><br />
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<span style="font-family: 'Trebuchet MS', sans-serif;">Later I owned the theatre and I produced Red Riding Hood. It was my first production and it took me a whole year, to make the puppets and paint the scenery. I used it in Dance Tales, in The Little Matchgirl, and the children in the studio still loved it.</span><br />
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<span style="font-family: 'Trebuchet MS', sans-serif;">The theatre unused and unloved lives in my attic. I have not the heart to throw it away. Nobody wants a toy theatre in 2014 but it is my <i>Rosebud</i>.</span><br />
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The trouble with a blog is finding interesting things to write in it. Other people's lives can be so boring and so can one's own life. Mine was particularly boring and Canons Park Tube Station has taken up hours and hours of my youth.</div>
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I came across this photo of Canons Park Tube Station in Wikipedia. It actually has its own Wiki page! I was astonished at anywhere so uninteresting and ugly could be worth a mention in an Encyclopedia. I was wrong.</div>
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Canons Park Tube Station was about three quarters of a mile from my semi detached house in Stanmore where I lived from the age of four to 21. The only way to get anywhere was to either walk or get the bus to this tube station. The daily decision of whether to walk the distance or wait for the 18 bus which seldom if ever came and when it did was usually full up was source of annoyance for 16 years.</div>
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I have spent hours of my life waiting for the bus or walking to this station. In the 1950's the fog was so bad I could hardly see my hand in front of my face and I had to count to curbstones to find my way home. I had to do this in the rain and the snow and even in fine weather I hated it.</div>
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My father who had a van and later a car never once gave me a lift in all those years. I had to cart all my heavy school books and later ballet paraphernalia each day. Even when Mummy and I went to Brixham for our holidays Daddy never gave us a lift with cases and later dog. On this occasion we waited for the 18 bus. Even when I was performing Daddy refused to help and I had to leave at 6.30 am and do the walk before the TV recording of 'The Turn of the Screw' which was not the easiest thing to sing for a 16 year old. I had to get the train back after at around 11 pm and do the walk. In fact even after the Royal Gala at Covent Garden the train ride back at 11 pm took the gilt of the ginger bread and bought one down to earth. Merle Park was on the train too with me plus bouquet. </div>
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Canons Park Station itself must be the ugliest station on the whole tube. It is, so Wiki says, the least used. It is just a bridge and two windy cold platforms which are high up and battered by the elements. Freezing sleet and snow in winter and rain in summer.<br />
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Pop and Ma Thorpe had four beautiful daughters. The first two Auntie Flo and Auntie Jo were born in England in Manchester in the early 1900's then there was a big gap of 6 years before Auntie Tippy( Eileen) was born in Ceylon in 1911. My mother Honey (Agnes) Thorpe was born in Datchet near Windsor in 1915.</div>
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My grandparents must have wanted a son but sadly they had four daughters. What to do with them? Boys would have gone to Public school and Oxford but girls? Girls education was non existent at that time so the two elder girls were sent a boarding school in Herne Bay and later a rather classy establishment in Chiswick. They remained in England.</div>
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The fate of the younger two was not so happy as they got shipped off to a convent in Liege in Belgium. My grandparents socially arisen from the slums of Manchester into the Upper Middle Classes copied what other Middle Class families did and dumped their girl children and in the case of my mother and her sister for years in boarding schools far from home. My mother hardly went home in 11 years! At the age of six my mother and her 9 year old sister travelled across the English Channel to Belgium never to return until they were grown up. In the case of my mother 16. Her mother visited them occasionally and once or twice they went home for Xmas but that was it.</div>
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Now this was not all doom and gloom. My mother seemed to enjoy it. My grandmother was a bit of an acid drop so the nuns must have seemed kinder and nicer and indeed both sisters opted to stay in Belgium for Xmas. Says something about granny I think.<br />
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Both girls learned to speak perfect French. They were educated in French and my mother learned all her secretarial skills in French. She had very high speeds as her certificates prove. The big problem was that she did not learn English. She was totally uneducated in English and I discovered when I was 45 that she could hardly read in English. The Daily Mail was about her limit although we did change to the Telegraph when I insisted. Reading the world's masterpieces was beyond her.<br />
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They were taught religion naturally, and needlework. Belgium young ladies were trained to become lace makers. Brussels Lace to be exact. This is the finest of lace and is a mixture of torchon lace and embroidery. Mother's leaving certificate was a magnificent embroidered table cloth which I use as a bedspread. If she had stayed in Belgium she would have gone to a school in Brussels to be taught this difficult craft.<br />
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The problem is that my mother was brilliant academically. She should have gone to Oxford. When it came to numbers her accountancy skills were exceptional. Like her accountant father mother could run up a column of £.s.d. in one go. She did the Family Books all her life to the last farthing.<br />
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Sex education was sadly lacking too. On one of the few occasions the two sisters did return to UK Auntie Tippy had her first period on the ferry across the channel. Nobody had informed them that this was natural. My mother thought Auntie Tip was dying in the loo! They made the journey on the boat alone but were met at the other end.<br />
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2013 has passed away and 2014 looms ahead. 2013 has been an exceptional year and in some ways a tidy up year when one gets to read the last chapter of a detective novel and all the plots come to fruition and happy endings abound. This happened to me and I did not have to raise a finger.<br />
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Why was it good? Well Vitamin B12 healed my compromised nervous system, I got to know Alice, my garden was glorious thanks to the water meter and a mild summer which seems to have disappeared already for 2014 and the Benjamin Britten Centenary.<br />
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The last of these is rather serious. Anything to do with Britten is serious. It was gratifying after 56 years to realise just how much the work we did 56 years ago is appreciated. I knew at the time it was <i>special </i>but I was never included in the media mix. I should have been but women were really not wanted in 1959. Now I am. BBC interview, Tony Palmer Documentary <i>Britten Nocturne </i>shown on Sky and DVD, <i>The Britten Centenary </i>book published by Bloomsbury where my and Hannah Nepals's contribution is right after the writer Alan Bennett and lastly the special screening of Peter Morley's 1959 iconic TV production of Britten's masterpiece The <b>Turn of the Screw</b> by the British Film Institute's fully remastered version on the South Bank which I am told looks and sounds amazing.<br />
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2013 will be hard to better.<br />
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So now on to 2014. My first family volume was well received and I have been asked to do another so during January I shall try to oblige.<br />
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My last true Auntie, Tippie Atkinson, had died in 2007. I lost touch with her many years ago but I did miss my wonderful Aunt. She was 94!<br />
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Auntie Tippie was an amazing woman for her time. She married a Speedway Rider, <a href="http://janettemillersstrangelife.blogspot.co.nz/2013/01/arthur-atkinson-speedway-star_2.html" target="_blank">Arthur Atkinson </a>in the 1930's and went on to promote manage and run West Ham Speedway in London, which in those days was as popular as football is today. A glamorous, high powered and unlikely occupation for a woman at that time. It would be like a woman running Manchester United Football team today and she would possibly do a better job.<br />
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Tippie Thorpe was the third of my grandfather's daughters. My mother Honey Thorpe being the fourth. As with all middle class children of that age they were shipped off to boarding school in Belgium and left there for years. It must have been daunting for them both and I know my mother never recoverd. At sometime my Aunt lost an eye but she never let it bother her all her life.<br />
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Tippie was most impressive and fiesty. She could be quite forceful if displeased as I found out when I was three! I bit her daughter who though the same age was much bigger than I and would never let me pass on the stairs. This bite caused a family uproar as it was Xmas 1946. Tippie was furious with me packed up her family went home to Southend taking the turkey with her. You can imagine the scene. One family Christmas dinner all set to go and no turkey! My grandmother took three years to forgive her but I suppose even at three I was to blame. I still feel guilty.<br />
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Tippie and Arthur were well off by my family standards. Arthur owned a munitions factory in the war and did well. They had big houses, mink coats, Jaguar cars and world cruises to Australia when the rest of us were on rations but my Auntie was just so nice it didn't seem to matter to me. Think it did to my mother. Living in a semi detached in Stanmore on nothing and watching your sister cruising around the world leading the life of a Movie Star could not have been easy.<br />
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Once in M&S I desperately wanted a Mohair Stole like my cousin and Auntie Tip would have bought it for me but my mother's pride did not allow. I shall always remember her kindness that day. When I was 8 my grandmother died AuntieTippie could not bring herself to go to the funeral so we sat alone together in the strange <a href="http://www.janetteheffernan.com/indian_room.html" style="color: #6699cc; text-decoration: initial;">Indian Room at my grandfather's home</a> and she talked to me seriously and treated me like an adult. It was the first time anyone in my family had done so. That's what I liked about Auntie Tip, she alone in my family treated me as an adult and not as a silly little girl.<br />
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Later Auntie Tippie put on fabulous Christmas parties, real glass balls on the Christmas trees and real pork. Her family had to do without bacon for a whole year to save the rations and I feel sure she saw to it that my Xmas presents were on par with her own children as Mummy and Daddy could never have run to it.<br />
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Auntie Tippie showed the 1930's world what a woman can do given the chance! She ran a top class Speedway club for years. I loved watching her putting on the events and she and Uncle Arthur once took me in their Jaguar to Bristol to watch Uncle Arthur ride. I was about eight and it was such an adventure for me. She did not even seem to mind me being sick in the car!<br />
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Here is a gorgeous picture of them both when young and in love to remember them by! It was taken by my father and I think it is just so young and fresh and shows something of her enjoyment of life.<br />
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Tippie was worth much more than with which she has been credited. Had she been a man with an education who knows what she might have achieved. I am proud to be her neice.<br />
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All families have secrets! Mine was no exception as both the Millers and the Thorpes were upwardly mobile in a big way. They had risen into the middle classes and the Thorpes epecailly were only too pleased to leave their working class relations behind in the slums of Manchester. Unpleasantly Pop and Ma Thorpe just simply dumped them and no one in the family knew either <i>their names or from whence they came</i>. They never imagined that anyone would <i>find out. </i>I did!<br />
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I always knew that I didn't belong to the upper middle classes. I was never at ease with any of them. I realised I was considered <i>Trade </i>and <i>Trade </i>was not what any well bred middle class man would look for in a wife. However to my astonishment my <i>very top draw</i> Oxford educated GP husband Miles Wakefield Castelhow Heffernan did. I never got to meet his Irish gentleman farmer father Dr Patrick Heffernan. Miles wisely waited until he died before proposing.<br />
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I did have to meet his mother Winifred Wakefield Heffernan who was a great lady. No woman would have been classy enough to marry her son and she made it quite clear that she was the <i>real thing </i>when it came to class and I was rather young and perhaps too pretty and she could overlook the <i>Trade</i>.<br />
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Winifred or <i>Mume </i>said she was related to Sir Edward Gibbon Wakefield who colonized Wellington, New Zealand. She was oh so proud of him, so much so that I had to give my daughter his name. Miles too always wanted to live in New Zealand because of this connection and in fact eventually we did.We met a grand niece of the great man, Miss Irma O'Conner and as she was a single lady with few friends I was able to befriend her as she badly needed a family. She and I searched her family tree but could find not a sign of these Wakefields.<br />
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The Spicer Paper connection was equally well favoured. It appears that Mume's grandmother was a Mary Spicer of the Spicer Paper Maufacturers and were rich beyond belief. I was even taken to the paper mill in Enshem outside Oxford. In truth Richard Wakefield was a rich paper merchant as can be see above in the very Victorian photo of him sitting outside his family home in Bridge Street East Molesey, Kingston on Thames.<br />
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Mume liked everything just so and I was hard pressed to come up to standard In fact I never think I never did. I did get a bit concerned when she insisted that the milk in tea went in first! This was a <i>no, no</i> in our household as it was in most upper middle class homes but I put it down to eccentricity.<br />
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Somehow I inherited the old Wakefield family wills as well as every spare chair that Miles's brother did not want. After Miles died I spent some time working out the family tree but still I had no idea who the Spicers and the Wakefields were. The wills looked oh so grand. Then along came Genes Reunited and all was revealed. What a surprise!<br />
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Mume was no more a <i>grand lady</i> than I was! In fact it was worse than my family. The fact that Richard Wakefield, Mume's father was a paper merchant who married a Mary Spicer was a coincidence of names for Mume's grandmother was of very humble birth. Sarah Spicer hailed from a seafaring family from Folkestone whose mother had had 22 children and practically single handedly populated Kent.<br />
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Richard Wakefield was a self made man going from a humble clerk to owning his own paper firm and becoming rich into the bargain. No connection with Sir Edward Gibbon Wakefield at all. My daughter who had been lumbered with Wakefield as a middle name never forgave me as Edward Gibbon Wakefield is not liked in NZ ! In fact he is hated for what he did to the Maoris.<br />
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Richard Wakefield married Emma Hill who was ten years older than he and after four children and a huge amount of upward mobility, she died. Mume was not one of the four children!<br />
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This is where the secret of the Wakefield /Heffernan's arises for after his first wife's death Richard Wakefield. at the rip old age of 70 moved to Hove with his housekeeper Hannah Walker who had been the maid to his first wife Emma. There he fathered a child with her and did the right thing and married her. Winifred Wakefield Heffernan, the great upper middle class lady, was the daughter of a housemaid! Nothing to be ashamed of as it is thought the Queen Mum had a similar parentage.<br />
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Mume's housekeeper mother became the lady of the house. It did not last long for Richard Wakefield died just five years later leaving a five year old daughter whom he adored. His other children were furious and their father just cut them out of his will leaving everything to his young daughter. Her brothers and sisters were not amused and have disappeared in history.<br />
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Her mother, Hannah, saw to it that Mume was educated and bought up to be a fine young lady, sending her to a very swish Swiss Finishing School and Mume was married off to a 44 year old elderly Irish doctor from County Tipperary. It was not the happiest of marriages. Mume and he lived on the fortune for the rest of their lives and their sons were oblivious to the fact that although they appeared top drawer the truth was slightly less. The Spicer and Gibbon Wakefield connections being nothing but dreams!<br />
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I am, like Mume proud of Richard Wakefield. He was as clever and astute as my own grandparents. However he too left his poor relations behind. His mother Sarah Spicer ended up a widow in London clawing a living by beading chairs. I have one! It is now very valuable as beading is rare today. The census reveals all the secrets.</div>
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I had no need to feel ashamed of my Miller/Thorpe families because the Wakfield/Heffernans were just the same.<br />
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<br />Janette Miller's Strange Lifehttp://www.blogger.com/profile/13140107668977991878noreply@blogger.com1tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2267077847332364144.post-23087786573786548132013-01-30T16:14:00.000-08:002013-01-30T16:51:33.103-08:00A Semi Detached in Stanmore Middx<table align="center" cellpadding="0" cellspacing="0" class="tr-caption-container" style="margin-left: auto; margin-right: auto; text-align: center;"><tbody>
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48 St Andrews Drive, Stanmore, Middx is my idea of a living hell. The whole family hated it the moment we moved in in 1947 and it took 17 years for the three of us to escape. None of us looked back! It was the most unpleasant 17 years of my life and all our neighbours felt exactly the same way. They could not wait to escape either. These houses deserve to be bombed and Hitler missed.<br />
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Admitedly the Google Maps screen shot makes it look worse today than when we moved in in 1947. Then a line of mature elms embellished the street which was on a steep hill and Lang the builders had given every house an ornamental tree and hedge. It was far more basic than today. It had no porch, no extra bedroom and no garage, and no tarmac garden. It was just house/space/space/ house and all the houses were the same. You entered number 48 and you became soulless. You became a prisoner.<br />
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The houses had long narrow gardens and we did all try to do something with them. Again the garden has not improved as we had it lined on both sides with fruit trees and roses and at the bottom was a hedge of conifers that shielded us from being overlooked by the house that backed on to us. They kept hens! We never talked as they hated the fir trees as they said it took their light!<br />
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Mummy did try to garden but the ground was pure Middlesex clay and nothing grew unless very, very hardy. It did grow magnificent champagne rhubarb, apples and marigolds. Lots of marigolds and golden rod! Lots of golden rod!<br />
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After the war nobody had anything and furniture was strictly rationed. You could have a dining room table but no chairs, or a bed and no curtains. The winter of 1947 was freezing and we just had a sack of slack to keep us warm so it was not a good start. We didn't have any clothes either!<br />
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I was surrounded by boys, Andrew Kett next door and David Tinsley across the road. the Tinsleys were Irish and quite mad. These two were rather like the brothers I never had. Then there was Rodger, he was never in the gang as he was <i>different</i>. When he got older he bleached his hair and became a hairdresser, made lots of money and got out as fast as possible! Nowadays Rodger would have been understood. His brother Derek who was much younger was the same. I feel bad about Rodger.<br />
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The Rutters had the house attached to ours and they had two sons, John and Michael. The first morning Mummy was there Mrs Rutter called. She said simply that we, the Millers were the wrong class and she did not want her sons playing with me. Mummy was never to bother her and she would never speak to us and she didn't in 16 years. Mrs. Rutter kept her word and her class hatred. She died of cancer in the room a joining my bedroom. I never went in her house. She never gave us or me a Christmas present. We were not asked to help and were not asked to the funeral. If only she'd known that our family was more working class than hers. Slums of Glasgow and Manchester us!<br />
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The house was a mile from any shops and a mile from<a href="http://janetteheffernan.blogspot.co.nz/2010/06/canons-park-tube-station.html" target="_blank"> Canons Park Tube Station.</a> I made the trek to both virtually every day of my life as the 18 bus and the Tube were the only places that offered a glimpse of freedom.<br />
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Life got better. We got a fridge and a television, a spin dryer and eventually a Hovermatic but I never had a wardrobe. The bedroom was too tiny for that and a piano which I could not play. The drawing room never got knocked through during our stay. Mummy tried to make it look good by having red wallpaper in the alcoves.<br />
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I was so ashamed of the place I never asked my friends back. I did once with the Young Conservatives, yes I cringe when I admit I belonged but you had to as it was the only social kid on the block. This was a disaster as the Upper Class YC's were just so sarcastic. Charlotte Rampling was one of the crowd! Still Robin Lynch of<i> Lifestyles of the Rich and Famous</i> hailed from a similar background. I knew him well.He too had an urge to get out and he did... to LA. In fact we all did get out eventually. A semi detached upbringing certainly encourages one to succeed as it is the only way to freedom.<br />
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We tried to get out twice but each time the sales fell through Eventually in 1964 when my mother and father had a life crisis I went out at the age of 21 and found them a house in Pinner. We escaped. Pinner was bliss!<br />
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Fortunately I shall never return. I could not afford to buy that house today and who in their right mind would want to as it is even worse now than it was then!<br />
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<br />Janette Miller's Strange Lifehttp://www.blogger.com/profile/13140107668977991878noreply@blogger.com2tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2267077847332364144.post-15573055507632169132013-01-25T12:42:00.000-08:002014-08-05T02:37:29.463-07:00Pamela Vincent?Burke A sort of sister for an only child<table align="center" cellpadding="0" cellspacing="0" class="tr-caption-container" style="margin-left: auto; margin-right: auto; text-align: center;"><tbody>
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I am an only child but I am so lucky in having<i> a sort of sister! </i>Pamela Vincent/ Burke is the only person I have left living who actually held me as a baby and has known me throughout my life. We shared a lot of our lives and I look on her and up to her as I would a real sister. She even asked me to be her bridesmaid while my real first cousin Gillian did not!<br />
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We met in Taplow. Mr and Mrs Vincent ran the cafe almost next door to Thamesway our house in Taplow during the war and literally saved our lives because we were able to buy extra food from them. My grandmother had a meal sent in nearly every day and Pam would sometimes bring it for her.<br />
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We played together, Mrs Vincent was a fine tennis player and nearly made it to Wimbledon only a having a baby interfered and Pam came to our famous Christmas parties in <a href="http://www.janetteheffernan.com/indian_room.html" target="_blank">the Indian Room </a>with Auntie Jo's Toy Theatre. Pam was also very good at dancing especially tap at which she as good as Shirley Temple and I never mastered at all.<br />
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After the war the Vincents moved to Cliftonville where they ran a guest house and sadly Pam's father died leaving her mother to cope with two little girls. I spent many happy hours at Cliftonville and these holidays were the major enjoyment of the year. The happy time we spent in the lofts together. Margaret, Pam's sister and I entered all the talent competitions. Margaret usually won with her rendition of <i>Maybe its because I'm a Londoner. </i>With her red hair, freckles and cockney accent she was unbeatable but I came a close second with <i>Somewhere over the Rainbow.</i><br />
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Because of her talent for dance Pam won a scholarship to the Arts Educational Schools in Tring. As she had to board and Cliftonville is so far away she came to live with us for exiats. We shared my tiny bedroom and we had such fun as Pam could teach me all the new ballet steps. Mummy took us to the ballet, Ice Pantos at Wembley, Harlem Globe Trotters, you name it.<br />
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This went on for years and I loved it. It was so nice having someone close to talk to and Pam was such a delight and was doing so well at ballet school that when my father realized that all was not well for me with the nuns he sent me to the London AES version which was the best thing that happened to me.<br />
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Again we were able to meet when Pam came to teach at London school.<br />
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We have remained friends all our lives and I hope always will. Pam now lives in Australia where she has had a fulfilling career in teaching, only being a woman stopped her from making headmistress which thanks to the likes of her is now possible. We Skype almost everyday. One could not have had a more wonderful <i>real</i> sister if one looked for a millenium.<br />
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<br />Janette Miller's Strange Lifehttp://www.blogger.com/profile/13140107668977991878noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2267077847332364144.post-9578584630500629182013-01-22T23:13:00.000-08:002013-01-22T23:14:57.289-08:00Lightening strikes on a Sunday in Centenary Park 1960<table align="center" cellpadding="0" cellspacing="0" class="tr-caption-container" style="margin-left: auto; margin-right: auto; text-align: center;"><tbody>
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A very ordinary Sunday in Summer can turn into an extraordinary Sunday that one will remember for the rest of one's life. There was nothing unusual about it. I was gong to Centenary Park at the bottom of St. Andrews Drive where I lived for most of my life. I had been invited by a young handsome London insurance broker called Colin to watch him play cricket.<br />
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I met Colin or rather he met me at The Green Man our local pub. Mummy and I used to call in for a lemonade on summer evenings when we walked the dog. Colin served behind the bar and he seemed enraptured by me. Well I was very pretty.<br />
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The cricket pitch was huge and surrounded by hundreds of semi detached houses. It was very open and had then and still has today a line of huge elms about 20 yards in from the boundary but the little cricket pavilion which was on the west boundary has gone. It was in front of this pavilion that I sat and watched the match. It was so boring! Colin was not very good at cricket.<br />
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It was about the middle of the afternoon that it happened. There was no warning. It was a warm sultry day and a Lady in a blue coat was strolling around the field exercising her dog. She let it off the lead and it headed under the line of elm trees. Colin's side was<i> Out </i>but for some reason he was not with me.<br />
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Suddenly the skies opened and it started to rain very heavily and one could hear thunder. I got up to run back into the pavilion and the Lady in the blue coat raised her hand with the dog lead to get her naughty dog to come out from under the trees. Being under a huge tree is not a good idea as lightening strikes the highest object it can find.<br />
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I turned back to the field to see the fielders taking out the stumps and start to run back to shelter when an enormous bolt of fork lightening came out of the sky across the pitch and hit just in front of the pavilion. The noise was excruciatingly loud.<br />
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It all seemed to happen in slow motion. Lightening just takes a second to strike but this seemed to last for ten seconds. I was right in front of it and saw the fork jump upwards and then back to earth. I could feel the vibration through my feet. It took me a second to realize what had happened.<br />
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The Lady in the blue coat was lying on the ground and I ran towards her but one of the cricketers told me to stay away. She had turned blue. She was dead. The Lady in the blue coat had died because in lifting her hand with the dog's lead she had given the lightening a piece of metal to strike. She never made it home from her Sunday walk.<br />
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All the cricketers under the lightening were badly burned or injured. Poor Colin seemed to be paralyzed up his left arm and was in a very bad way. He ran away from me and looked badly shocked. In fact most people were in a bad way except for me. I was lucky. Soon ambulances arrived to ferry away the injured.<br />
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I walked a very shaky young man back to my house nearby. Colin tried to be brave but could never forget it was I who helped him not the other way around. After a brandy and a tea Daddy drove him home and I never saw him again.<br />
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I was told it took him nearly six months to recover from the bolt. Some of the cricketers were ill for over a year. It made the front page of all the newspapers.<br />
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If ever I was in open field like a golf course and it started to thunder with fork lightening I should lie down flat. Lightening dosen't always go for the huge tree near by!<br />
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Mary Anne Hamilton McKenzie was an Irish beauty as can be seen in her photo on her wedding day. She was born in Dublin but I have no idea of her dates as the Public Record Office was blown up in 1916 and her new birth certificate got her name wrong! </div>
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May McKenzie was the daughter of Charles McKenzie who was socially upwardly mobile as were many in the Dublin of that time. May could have been a dead ringer for <a href="http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Nora_Barnacle" target="_blank">Nora Barnacle </a>whose family was on the way up who married the writer <a href="http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/James_Joyce" target="_blank">James Joyce </a>who was around Dublin at that time and whose family was on the way down. May Miller and Nora Barnacle had much in common. Both loved clothes and both were strong characters. </div>
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So it is not surprising that May fell for the young Scots golf sundries manufacturer from Glasgow who was also upwardly mobile and they had this great wedding in Dublin in 1906 </div>
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They were very happy and had a wonderful 50 year marriage but in fact Grandpa got two McKenzies for the price of one. Betty McKenzie, the only unmarried daughter came to look after her sister May after Hughie my father was born in Golders Green London in 1910 as Grandma had contracted septicemia after the birth. Betty McKenzie never went home! Grandpa sort of had two wives! He was very fair, if his wife had a fur coat then her sister had a slightly less valuable fur coat.</div>
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The Miller family were very secretive about how Great Grandpa Charles McKenzie made his fortune. I never discovered his trade until I inherited the marriage certificates in 1998. He was a plumber! That explains it! </div>
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I had great fun telling my rather elderly pompous upper class cousins. I am not sure they were too happy I found out. My second cousins did not bat an eyelid and in fact we are all proud of our humble origins.</div>
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Grandma Miller had a lot with which up to put during her life as the wife of an entrepreneur, feast one year, famine the next but she had a sense of humour and was great fun which is just as well.</div>
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She died in 1964 from an infected injection of B12, hence my fear of any type of injection and now I have to inject myself! That's life.</div>
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I have always loved collecting things, stamps, antiques, paintings but my first love was fostered by my father, <a href="http://janettemillersstrangelife.blogspot.co.nz/2013/01/major-hughie-millers-home-guard-medal.html" target="_blank">Major Hughie Miller</a> when he began giving me lead farm animals. These lead and now highly dangerous farm animals had been very popular with children since Victorian times and it seems if my grand daughter Alice is anything to go by, are still popular in 2013.<br />
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After the war my father rejoined his father Hugh Miller and they started up their <a href="http://janettemillersstrangelife.blogspot.co.nz/2013/01/hugh-miller-and-multi-colored-golf.html" target="_blank">golf sundries business, Humil Ltd </a>this time running it from my grand mother's dining room in Edgware, Middlesex. This ment that Daddy had to travel and was away for weeks at a time.<br />
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At that time I spent many school holidays in Lymm, Cheshire where I lived next door to a working farm. The real mixed farms of the 1950s and I loved it. I cried when I had to return home.<br />
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I disliked my Daddy being away so much so to make life more pleasant Daddy started to buy me a farm. Each journey he would arrive back with a different animal for me, a cow, a sheep, a chicken or even a dog. I loved the two collie dogs best. The farm grew over the years and I kept it for my daughter Chloe who loved to play with it too.<br />
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I would spend hours getting it out. We had green cushions made out of died parachute silk and these made perfect fields. I had a wooden Swiss chalet which served as the farm house and it took ages to get the whole collection displayed. In fact eventually my mother allowed me to keep it up. It cluttered the small drawing room for weeks.<br />
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I knew how a real farm worked and I would go through the daily ritual, feeding the chickens, cows to milk so the butter could be churned by hand. This is very easy and quick by the by. Then there were the kittens to play with. Always lots of cats to keep the mice and rats at bay. There were stooks of corn to turn and after tea we collected the eggs. No battery hen chickens for us. Our chickens laid where they wanted. It was hunt the egg! This took hours which was just as well because a <a href="http://janettemillersstrangelife.blogspot.co.nz/2013/01/janette-millers-excellent-bbc-education.html" target="_blank">TV did not arrive in our house</a> until 1953 with the coronation.<br />
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I would wait with feverish anticipation for Daddy to arrive back and see what animal he had for me. Sometimes it took ages to find the right one. I wanted the St Bernard dog. I never got it as Daddy never came across it on his travels but he took me to Selfridges Toy Department and there it was. Bliss!<br />
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The lead animals of my farm are old and battered but I can't bring myself to throw them away. My delightful 3 year old grand daughter was intrigued by them too and spent an hour and a half engrossed in playing with them. She especially liked the scarecrow!<br />
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Three generations of children have played with and enjoyed Daddy's collection. It is a pity farms are not like this today in 2013.Janette Miller's Strange Lifehttp://www.blogger.com/profile/13140107668977991878noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2267077847332364144.post-19038459380238181952013-01-17T09:58:00.000-08:002013-01-17T10:05:47.361-08:00The Wolsey Wasp <table align="center" cellpadding="0" cellspacing="0" class="tr-caption-container" style="margin-left: auto; margin-right: auto; text-align: center;"><tbody>
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As a young man my father, Hughie Miller, was a lad about town. He started life at Lloyds but did not<i> fit in </i>so joined my grand father's golf sundries company <a href="http://janettemillersstrangelife.blogspot.co.nz/2013/01/hugh-miller-and-multi-colored-golf.html" target="_blank">Humil Ltd, </a>in Ely Place London. The Golf business was doing well and daddy, as all young men do, bought a sporty car.<br />
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This must have impressed my mother, Honey Thorpe. I can vouch all middle class girls of this age were impressed by little red sports cars although the one above was green. I think it was a Wolsey Hornet and the family called it the Wasp.<br />
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On a fine summer's day it must have been a delight but then England is not known for fine summer days. Most of the time it rains and this car was agony in the rain. It almost put a five year old off sports cars for life but not quite.<br />
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The Wasp was laid up on bricks for the war but when we moved to Stanmore this became the Miller family car. It was not a pleasure to own. Mummy and I used to dread going anywhere in it as there was no guarantee that you would arrive. One memorable trip to Cliftonville ended in the lavender fields outside Canterbury with a blown gasget. Mummy and I ended our journey by train and Daddy did not turn up till two days later.<br />
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Then it leaked. Daddy told my mother to get out her sewing machine and he would run up a new hood in no time. Mummy obliged. Ten hours and a good deal of colorful language later Daddy had not even succeeded in threading the needle.<br />
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When my grandfather Pop Thorpe died in 1952 we inherited the Ford V8 and the Wasp was soled for pennies. Now you would need a small fortune to buy one as it is a classic car but I wouldn't give you tuppence for it even if I could.<br />
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However the experience did not cure me about the joys of little red sports cars. Far from it!Janette Miller's Strange Lifehttp://www.blogger.com/profile/13140107668977991878noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2267077847332364144.post-78131138521387860212013-01-16T12:46:00.000-08:002019-01-06T22:39:50.172-08:00How I met my Father!<div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: center;">
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There are some moments of one's life that one wishes one could do again. Meeting my father Major Hugh Miller is one of them. To say it was a disaster does not do it justice. It was one of those events from which the whole family, especially my father never recovered and in some ways neither did I.</div>
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Wars cannot be helped. My father left for North Africa just before I was born and did not return until Christmas 1946. I was nearly four. Since I could remember I was shown this photo above and told he was my Daddy. I was oh so proud of it. I was told by all the family that I would meet my father off a big boat one day.</div>
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Christmas 1946 was that day. I lived with my two maiden aunts, my grandmother and my grandfather. Pop was the only man in my life up until them and I adored him and in fact he was my father. I had no need of another. </div>
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In hindsight, the family should have had a plan as how to tackle the momentous occasion but they didn't. My father just turned up at 6 pm at Taplow on Christmas Eve, in battle dress, unshaved and off the boat. To make matters worse he hadn't phoned my mother but had gone straight to Edgware to see <i>his</i> mother first without telling his wife. My mother felt slighted.</div>
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My mother was off to a Christmas dance and was all dressed up to go out with her dancing partner Dennis so was not amused that Daddy had not warned her and Daddy was not too delighted to see his wife going out dancing with another man however innocent.</div>
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I remember coming down the stairs at Thamesway and seeing this soldier who I did not recognize in the hall. The whole family was assembled as they were there for Christmas so it was a very public first meeting. I was terrified of soldiers as I knew they had tanks! One of the family not my mother told me to come downstairs and meet my father.</div>
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Daddy squatted down on the hall floor and opened his kit bag which was full of sweets. I had never in my life seen this many sweets before. In the war we did not get sugar let alone sweets. He had saved his sweet ration for me. It was a lovely thing to do.</div>
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I overcame my fear rushed to the sweets. The whole family was agog to witness my reaction. Daddy clasped me to him and gave me a kiss. His unshaved face graised my cheek and I recoiled and pulled away screaming "Daddy prickles" and ran away upstairs. I could not be coaxed down again.</div>
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I do not think Mummy, Daddy or I ever truly recovered from this first meeting. In retrospect, it should have been planned very carefully. I should have been warned a few days before and Daddy should have looked as he did in his photo in his Major's uniform. He was truly handsome in real life.</div>
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